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Unpopular opinion: I think you should leave a found notebook where it is
I found a small, leather bound journal on a bench in a park in Portland about six months ago. It was clearly someone's personal diary, full of daily thoughts and sketches. Everyone online says to try and find the owner, but I just put it back under the bench and walked away. My feeling is that a diary is a private thing, and the person who lost it might come back looking for it. If I took it, even to try and return it, I'd be reading their private words, which feels wrong. It's not my story to find or to share. The book was dry and safe where it was. Has anyone else just left something personal alone, even when you knew you could maybe help?
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max8082mo ago
Honestly, I get that completely! I found a sketchbook once on a bus seat, just stuffed with amazing drawings. I left it right there on the seat because I figured the artist would retrace their steps. Taking it, even to hand it in somewhere, meant I'd have to flip through it, and that felt like snooping. You did the right thing leaving it dry and in the spot they'd remember.
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parker_foster532mo ago
Leaving it right where they lost it is the best move. People retrace their steps exactly, checking the same seat or bench. If you move it to a lost and found, they might never think to look there. It also avoids that weird feeling of looking through someone's private stuff, even if you're trying to help. You protected their work and their privacy at the same time. Have you ever had someone actually come back for something you left in place?
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