Contrary to popular belief, my 90s internet friend is still around.

Back in 1995, I spent hours on a dial up BBS for guitar players. Most folks now say those early web chats were just for bored teens. I strongly disagree. I connected with a guy from another state who taught me chords over slow email. We sent tapes of our playing through the mail for feedback. When my amp broke, he mailed me a part from his stash. We finally met in 1998 at a small show, and it felt like family. Today, he's the best man at my wedding next month. Those pixelated talks built a real bond that outlasts many offline ones.

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the_jana2d ago

And it's wild how common that is, honestly. I've got a friend from an early 2000s book forum (we still swap recommendations every month) who feels more like family than some cousins. People dismiss online bonds as less real, but they often have more depth because you connect over shared passions, not just proximity. Your amp fix story shows that trust built through pixels can be just as solid as any offline help. It makes me think we underestimate how much those niche communities shape our lives.

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casey4852d ago

In 2005, I joined a guitar forum called GearHeads. A user named Mark always gave great advice on tube amps. When my amp died before a big show, he mailed me a spare part from his own stash. We still chat about music, and that help meant more than most things from people I see every day.